For seventeen years we lived in a house on a quiet cul-de-sac in a suburb north of Seattle. We moved there when Alexis was just eight years old with our Golden Retriever, Bogie, and our Tortie cat, Sophie. Over the years, many cats appeared on our back deck, they all seemed to know that our place was a safe haven, where they would get food and affection.


We found homes for some of them, a few we took to the local PAWS shelter, but one in particular, we kept. He popped up on the deck one autumn day and decided that this was his home and we were his pets. Alexis named him Neville, after Neville Longbottom of the Harry Potter series.


He was a free spirit and roamed the neighborhood getting to know all the residents. He liked to nap on the tarp-covered boats and RVs in the neighbor’s yards, and sit on the fence in our backyard, tormenting the neighbor’s dogs. He fought with other cats, but gave our senior kitty, Sophie, the respect she commanded.



He lived with us for several years when there came a time when we didn’t see him for several days. Alexis and I searched the neighborhood, calling his name, knocking on doors, asking if anyone had seen him, but to no avail. We were heartbroken, although Sophie seemed pleased as punch at his disappearance. I learned from a neighbor that he had a second family and they had moved and must have taken him. Sneaky little two-timer, he never told us that. So that was it; we hoped he would be well loved and happy in his new home.

It was the end of summer and Alexis had gone back to Oregon for her senior year of college, theTravelsketcher was away on a business trip, and I was home alone. I was in the kitchen after work one evening, with the door to the deck open when I saw him pop up on the deck. I shrieked with joy when I saw him! He was skinny, hungry, had battle wounds, but purred loudly as I held him close.
Our neighbor didn’t know where his people had moved to and suggested we keep him. The vet pointed out that if we were able to find the owners and return him, he would continue to try to find his way back to us again, which was risky and dangerous. She also said that cats pick their people and he picked us. However, I looked for lost cat notices in the newspaper, at local businesses, and on telephone poles in our neighborhood, but never saw one about him. So we decided to keep him, and he continued to live his free-roaming life with us.

He eventually had to make some adjustments though. First off, a few years after his return, we sold our home and moved to a townhouse where he had to be an indoor kitty. But he adjusted quickly as usual. He also didn’t realize that he would be moving to France one day. Lots of people told us they would take him, but we politely declined their offers. After all he endured to find his way back to us, there was no way we could give him up.



Eighteen months ago, just a few months before we moved to France, he was diagnosed with kidney disease. However, the vet gave the okay for the move. The vet said he probably didn’t have much longer to live, so we were pleasantly surprised when he flourished and thrived here. He loved being able to go outside whenever he pleased. He roamed freely, watched birds, caught rodents, rolled in the dirt, and entertained the neighbors with his antics.






We said goodbye yesterday and held him as he passed. The vet said his kidneys were shutting down quickly. He is by far the best pet we have had, and we’ve had some really great ones over the years. He was friendly, outgoing, social, well mannered, he scratched only on his scratching post, never on the furniture or carpeting, and never sprayed in the house. He was the perfect gentleman cat and we will miss him terribly.
Our dear friend Shirley shared this quote with us when we told her about Neville’s passing:
Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened. Anatole France
Have you had an exceptional pet? If so, I would love to hear about them, so please leave a comment if you like.
All the best,
Tricia
Grieving. He was such a big
part of our life. We even altered plans just so he would not be alone so much. These photos bring back some of the best memories in my life, thank you so much.
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He was worth it.
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Yep.
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Tricia, I am so sorry to hear of Neville’s passing. I have had some lovely, very dear animal friends as well and know how you feel. I hope you can take some comfort from knowing that Neville had such a good life with you. 💛
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Thanks so much Lynette. It’s always so hard to say goodbye to a dear pet.
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I’m so sorry to hear of Neville’s passing. What a lovely and loving story. Maggie
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Thanks Maggie. He was an exceptional cat.
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Sweet and lovely. Your writing today is a mix of both sadness and love ❤️–and a lovely story. Perhaps a great tribute to Neville of Normandie would be a children’s book made from this very posting and illustrated by the Travelsketcher. A nice way to capture and share the love shared by pets and their humans….
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Thanks so much Shirley. I’ve thought about Neville being the subject of a children’s book. As always, I greatly appreciate your support.
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Oh, Tricia, tears as I am reading this. I met Neville once and he made a big impression on me! I think he was a grateful cat, having had hard times and now finding love and a haven with you.
I’ve had wonderful cats, but I tell my my Chester and Pippa that they are the best kitties in the world, but don’t we all feel that way! Chester is like your Neville, a big, orange, friendly love. Pippa is shy but fiercly loving to me, and the brains of the two.
I am so, so sorry for your loss.
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Thanks so much Terri. I know you can relate after all you went through with Max and Sadie; it’s just so hard. Chester and Pippa are so sweet. Pets bring so much joy.
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I love animals, especially cats and dogs and each time one of them leaves us, they also leave a pawprint on our hearts.
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Me too. Beautifully said; thank you.
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Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. Neville was a wonderful kitty and so lucky to have you for his family. I hope your happy memories of him bring you peace during this difficult time. Hugs
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Thanks so much Kim, he was an exceptional kitty. We are thankful he chose us. Thanks for your thoughts and caring; we appreciate it. We hope you’re doing well.
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Thank you for sharing this story of Neville choosing you. He could not have chosen more loving pets. My favorite pet was Nifty, a St. Bernard puppy my parents gave me when I was in junior high. He grew to be 150+ pounds, but he hopped up onto my dad’s lap every night, until he got too hot and went to sleep on the tile floor in the hallway (and away from the noise of the TV). When I would pass his seemingly asleep self and stop to look down at him, without fail he would lift a paw (without opening his eyes or lifting his huge head) and put it on top of my foot. He just had to touch and connect. He was the sweetest pet I’ve ever had. (And they were all sweet.)
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Oh Lisa, what lovely memories, he sounds so sweet. Pets are the best, but it’s so hard when they die.
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On Tricia, I’m so so sorry (and apologies I read your previous post before this one). Neville sounds an exceptional cat indeed, as were you exceptional people for him. Sending love x
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Thanks so much Han; it’s so hard to say goodbye to a beloved pet. He was a great one.
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Those final days and moments are so hard, and then you’re left all alone with your pain. What a brave and adventurous soul he was. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Rest in peace, Neville. ❤️
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Exactly; well said.
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Absolutely. I’m still grieving. Thanks for your comment.
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Oh Tricia, I’m so sorry. An exceptional cat and an exceptional friend. Pets pick their people and what a life of love you gave to him.
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Thanks Meg. He was an extra special cat and was loved by so many.
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Oh Tricia, I read your beautiful story about Neville with a tear in my eye. It’s always great to see how people care about animals. Berto always says: “If someone cares about animals, it’s a good person” 🙂 … so you must be very good people!
We had two cocker spaniels and because we couldn’t have children, they were our two four-legged kids. Extremely spoiled, but the most loving pets one could ask for. The vet put Stoffel to sleep at 14 years of age and just a few months later we said goodbye to our 13 year old Juliet (both due to illness). It was 9 years ago, but we still think of them with so much love.
Cherish the beautiful memories of your dear Neville – he will certainly live on in your hearts (and in your blogs, photos and Terry’s beautiful sketches).
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Thanks so much Corna; I appreciate your kind words and thoughts. That’s nice what Berto said too; please extend our appreciation. Your cocker spaniels sound like they were loved and cherished as well. They must have been very close if Juliet died so soon after Stoffel. Pets are family! Thanks again.
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Thanks! I’ll take a look at the link.
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A very beloved pet. So sorry for your loss. I definitely know that pain.
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Thanks Brenda. I know you can relate. It’s always so difficult.
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What a lovely tribute to sweet Neville!
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Thanks Emily, I appreciate your comment. I hope all is well with you.
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Tricia, I’m so glad I found the time to sit down and catch up with this. What a lovely story and a beautiful tribute to Neville, whose French adventures I have enjoyed following these last eighteen months. I loved hearing about how Neville came to join your family and his endearing mannerisms and escapades.
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Hey Leighton; thanks so much for reading about Neville. I’m glad you enjoyed his story. Terry and I have had quite a few great cats throughout our marriage but he was the best.
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